Are you unlucky in life? Do you want to be luckier?

I never keep my iphone in my pocket. Ever. Except yesterday when I slipped it into my trousers on the way to the taxi rank. Result, it fell out on the backseat and is now lost for good. What bad luck!

Yes, bad things happen to everyone - but are some people unluckier than others? Do some individuals attract more than their fair share of life's poo?

Surprisingly, my answer to this question is 'yes'. Some of us are more unlucky. Perhaps I need to explain myself.

I am convinced that we all have lucky and unlucky things happen to us. It's just that some people recognise good luck when it happens to them and make the most of it. For example, these Young Brains will see a $10 bill on the floor, bend down and pick it up. What luck! Incidentally, this once happend to me. I was at the races and a £20 note floated past my nose. I grabbed it out of the air and had a far better lunch than I'd been planning for!

But back to my point. Wouldn't everyone stoop to pick up free money? Astonishingly, no. Old Brains see the $10 and think that it must be a joke; that the note is false, counterfeit, a fake. This fact is only confirmed by the fact that it is still on the floor. If it had been real, someone else would already have picked it up!

Can you see where I'm heading with this? We are all lucky - it's just that some of us refuse lady luck when she extends us her privileges. And if Old Brains turn down the chance for a better lunch, what else are they refusing to benefit from? A job opportunity? A chance to make new friends? A trip to the seaside with the family?

I love the word 'serendipity'. It just sounds nice. But it also is nice. It means, roughly, the preparedness to accept luck when it happens. When you rejuvenate, you become luckier. You become a Young Brain and you suddenly find yourself recognising luck and letting it into your life. Almost immediately, you start to see boundless opportunities, whereas previously, you'd seen nothing - or nothing but fakes, false promises and probable falsehoods.

So, do you want to be luckier? Then shed your Old Brain attitudes. Go on. Bend down and pick up that opportunity which is in front of your very eyes.

17 Again

Would you like to be 17 again?

It's a familiar fantasy. By magically rolling back the clock, you'd suddenly have a teenager's thin and athletic body again. You'd have all your life in front of you. And most importantly, perhaps, you'd be able to 'start again' and avoid all the mistakes you've made in your life.

This fantasy is shared by Mike O'Donnell in the recent Hollywood film 17 Again. Mike gives up on a scholarship when he is 17 to marry his sweetheart who is pregnant. And he spends the next 20 years in a bad mood. He should have gone into higher education. He would have been a basketball superstar. And his wife is the culprit! She 'forced' him into choosing early family life.

Of course, with such a reproachful husband, divorce is her only alternative and 37 year old Mike finds himself living without his wife and on non-speaking terms with his two kids. And so he wishes he were 17 Again.

And he gets the chance when a bit of Hollywood-style magic lets him wake up as his 17 year old former self, ready to start student life again.

Rather than spoil the plot, let's just cut to the moral of the story. Mike eventually discovers that, for him, the importance of being a teenager, once again, is not that it allows him to cut it, once more, on the basketball court. Nor is it about being sexually attractive to young women. Given the chance to rejuvenate, he finds that he uses the opportunity to pursue what he truly wants most of all in life. And that is to get really close to his wife and protect and nurture his kids.

I watched the film with my family last night and I came away agreeing with the moral of the story. Aiming to rejuvenate is not, ultimately, about giving yourself a teenage make-over. But rather, it's about: renewing your ability to see what is positive and real in your life today; having a reborn ambition to strive for these goals; and rediscovering the dynamic energy to make them happen.